( joined Jun 2024 ad #119778 )
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Location: |
La Crescenta, California |
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Age: |
46 years old | |
Gender: |
female | |
Ethnicity: |
non-specified | |
Diet: |
Vegan | |
Religion: |
Agnostic / not religious | |
Alcohol: |
Infrequently | |
Smokes: |
Never | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Sign: |
Libra (Sept 23 - Oct 22) | |
Marital status: |
Ask me | |
Have Kids: |
None | |
Want Kids: |
Not sure | |
Education: |
Masters | |
Income: | tell you later | |
Relocation: | Yes | |
Relationship: | Serious relationship/marriage OR activity partner | |
My description:
A strong Faith in God. connected to the consciousness of Christ Buddha + Allah as I do not believe the differences are nearly as significant as the similarities (which should also let you know that I am clearly not dogmatically religious)
The only thing I practice 'religiously' one might say is my ethical veganism (although I've realized in recent years that even this falls short of what I now consider a moral baseline .. but more on that later if we connect)
I've become increasingly attracted to slow living, desire someone who has a sense of purpose in his life + clarify on his life vision which includes the desire for a more traditional marriage (but not interested into rushing into marriage either)
I’m dressed up (like in the photo) maybe 10% of the time these days (photo is within the last year) it's been a somewhat steep shift especially in the last 6 months to where I spend most of my time sitting in my garden barefoot eating fruit + listening to the birds ... or the occasional podcast. although I am currently in the outskirts of LA, I feel a deep desire to leave the city which has been consistent/growing for the last several years.
Seeking:
aside from the above, is extremely important to me that a person can readily identify their own shadows or things that still trigger them + regulate their mood even when there is conflict, instead of projecting past pains onto one another. I don't believe there's any such thing as a fully healed person. But somebody who hasn't even begun to scratch the surface of their shadows will not enjoy my company. my greatest desire is to know the depth of my own capacity for love. and thereby be closer to God by the time this incarnation ends.
I have a deep appreciation for inner calm + presence. And like many people say anyway, I value my peace A LOT. But I don't use it as an excuse to shut down or walk away if there's conflict/disagreement. I think disagreement is inevitable. But disrespect + fighting on either part is always a choice (well above a certain level of consciousness anyway). I also believe that a lot of people confuse their trauma with a desire for peace. When it's really just an inability to work through things with someone.